If any of you recall my post a bit back about being a first time mom, you would probably think I would be thrilled about my baby girl growing up some! Those first weeks were really tough! I have told some people that when EA started sleeping longer stretches at night, I got my sanity back. Then when she started napping in bigger chunks (as opposed to the 30 minute naps!) I got my time back. I no longer had to decide if I wanted to eat breakfast or shower (and you can probably guess which one won out most of time, ha!) in the first nap of the day. Every nap, I had exactly 30 minutes to get things done. Then, this happened:
She found her thumb!!! Now, she takes a 2 hour nap in the morning, a 2 hour nap in the afternoon and about a 1 hour nap in the early evening. Yes, its heavenly. Yesterday (since my house was already clean from the shower we threw on Sunday), I actually felt like I ran out of things on my to-do list. That's happened, like, never! Granted, I still have things on my long term to-do (yes, type A here- multiple to do lists!) but I had done everything that needed to be done yesterday and for the next few days! Thank you thumb.
We did a lot of things yesterday, like:
Go to our neighborhood pool- she cracked up! A lot!
She and Keenan watched a few Disney songs on the ipad!
Played with Marty, the zebra.
The other thing we did yesterday was go to a 4 hour feed schedule. She has been ready for about 2 weeks now but I have been hanging on to the 5 feeds a day. I love the schedule of the 4 hour feed but it was just an emotional step for me. I can't explain why this and not other things made me feel like she is growing up so quickly, but it did.
When I was going back to school I would still feed her at 5am, head to school and she would feed every 3 hours. Now, she wasn't napping great yet so the 3 hour schedule was good. As I neared the end of my month of being back, she was not stirring at 5 or 5:30 so I was waking her up to feed her. I didn't think she needed it, but I didn't want our moms to have to decide at 6:30 when she stirred because Keen was getting ready if she needed to eat or could she wait until 8am. So, I kept feeding her. As soon as I was done with school, though we stopped the early morning feed. No emotions there-- probably because I got to sleep more, ha!
So then we were down to 5 feeds a day. As her naps started to lengthen, I was having to wake her up to eat (the biggest sign that she was ready to stretch out feeds) and she naturally started to transition to a 3 1/2 hour feed schedule. Then, her naps got even longer and she pretty much just pushed herself to the 4 hour schedule. But, I held on to an extra feed after her short evening nap and would basically feed her again about an hour later before bed. Then, yesterday, I did it. We just did 4 feeds. She, of course, did great but it still was hard for me. She is just growing up to quickly. I really just want to freeze time!!! Since I can't, I am really trying to enjoy every moment I can with her. So, I didn't expect it to be hard for me to go to this schedule because I have been excited about it for a long time, but it was.
1 comments:
Diana Maria said...
Love reading about your momma-ing time! You're wonderful!